Best Way to Set Your Own Feng Shui’s Objectives

Feng shui can improve your life and relationships. First you need to relax and think carefully about what it is you want, and then work out how you can use the tool to make an improvement.

In feng shui consultations people are not always very clear on what exactly they want or how they could use feng shui to achieve their goals. Sometimes you think you know what you want but then later you realize you wanted something different. Before making any decisions on what you want from life, try talking it over with a valued friend, going for a walk, doing some exercise, deep breathing or meditation. It can help to take a blank piece of paper and write down your objectives, visualize the difference they would make to your life and try to imagine how you would feel. Work on these until you are happy with them.

Feng shui can not be a magic pill and it will not make you wealthy, get you the perfect relationship or improve your health by itself. You will also need to work at it and try to create the circumstances for it to happen. The examples in this article show how you could apply this process to different problems.

Relationships

First consider what kind of relationship you would like. Should it be a long-term relationship, more casual or a quick fling? Do you want to live together, get married or have children? Think about the kind of person that might be best suited to that kind of relationship.

Next, work out what you could change about yourself to make it happen. This requires an honest appraisal of how you could have made past relationships more successful. For example, were you too dominating, uncommitted or serious?

Remember you cannot change another person, only yourself, so to blame the other person will not help you improve your ability to enjoy happy relationships.

If you have not been in a relationship, you will need to work out why. Do you go out enough? Do you meet new people and, if so, are they the kind of people you could have a relationship with? Do you get into potentially romantic situations?

Once you have decided which aspects of your character you want to work on, you can use feng shui to help bring about a change. For example, if you want to be more romantic you will need to try the projects associated with romance.